Alright so this whole suggestion is super confusingly formatted, but here's what I've made of it:
You want to be able to plan your own events. Now, I completely support that in a way, but keyword in a way. Event Team are completely fine to do events requested by the players, but they are not allowed to aid Chaos or MTF in raiding / harming the other. This system has been set in place for a while now, and will continue to bet set in place until Chaos and MTF settle their beef with each-other. (Not gonna specify what that beef is, as I don't want to cause any arguments here)
The other thing is if you do intend on doing an operation (Which I call Passive RP) please notify an event team. The reason I say this is if they are already about to do an event, having more than one RP going at once gets very hectic and hard for everyone to keep up with.
Also, The whole thing with the discord, I don't see why that couldn't already be done. All that's required is for you to message an Event Team member either in game or on discord and tell them your idea and a time. If that time is not reserved, they would more then likely say yes. However, don't expect them to say yes (Even if the time is open) because they might already have a plan for it.
On a side note:
If I'm not mistaken, something like this happened at one point. It didn't go that well, as CI just came and shot them.