amen. (I didn't read a word.)

You must take yourself from this anxiety of being judged by others. Some would defend the freedom, thinking you should know the place. Some will worry that you are growing and think that they will lose your passion, the relationship. Some can get shots at you because the individual will just know that they haven't separated themselves from their anxiety, their sense of entitlement, their indifference, the comfort of their victimhood, and the safety of their learned helplessness.